I never suggested you were racist mate , but the comments made had racist under tones and could be construed by lurker posters reading this forum that dont know you as well as the regular posters here do , that you were indeed .........racist.
The fact that you are married to a asian, meant the comments made were even more puzzling, but i do understand that a fair bit of grog was consumed plus i suspect you are from my generation ( i am 55) whereby comments made to our immigrant friends back in the day were understood to be a
" term of endearment ".........not derogatory, so i wasnt offended.
We live in a woke society , comments made back in the day are just not acceptable now unfortunately.
Funnily enuff, i was having this same conversation to my woke teenagers over Xmas, cause comments i make from time to time towards my immigrant buddies are considered by them as .........racist.
Nothing could be further from the truth and no amount of explanation could sway the fuckers...
It is what it is.
Please continue to post mate , (i wasnt having a go at you per se), just highlighting a red flag....expressing ones opinion in these frustrating times is therapeutic for the mind, just got to temper that with the woke society that we live in.......
imo