"Who cares?"
I care!
STOP TARGETING ME!
I said I “made
about 7 posts”, the emphasis being on the word “
ABOUT”, meaning it's an approximation, as in roughly. I wasn't about to go through every one of my thousands of posts, just to prove a point to you or anyone else.
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I don’t know who hurt you to make you the way you are. At one point in time, I used to feel sorry for you, but not now.
Your relentless pursuit of me is NOT OK. It was a similar targeted attack from you which eventually caused Fact Finder to leave here.
Unlike you I have never upheld myself to be infallible. I am constantly self-deprecating. I have made countless posts that allude to my not being an expert and that I make mistakes, and that others should do their own due diligence. I’m honest about my limitations.
At the end of the day, I’m a human being with real feelings. And I don't know if you're aware of this, but the way you choose to speak to people has a real impact on their well-being.
As someone who has lost a brother to suicide, I can tell you the weight of mental health is something I live with every single day. It’s the worst kind of heartbreak and torment for a family to endure. I would not be honouring my brother’s memory if I didn’t stand up to the toxicity of bullies when I encounter it.
And then there’s this: you waited until Father’s Day to post your tirade against me. I had informed the forum that my father had died earlier this year and now I can’t help but feel you timed it deliberately for maximum damage. If so, that is beyond cruel.
I have not done anything to you that deserves the treatment you are metering out to me publicly on this forum. And I refuse to be subjected to it any longer, without defending myself, or anyone else on here that is being bullied by you, or by anybody.
I will not stay silent!
I used to enjoy this place, but you have single-handedly prevented me from feeling safe enough to share my thoughts and opinions.
Knowing someone is constantly monitoring everything I say, just waiting to trip me up and tear me down, is intolerable. I have put you on ignore. I don't engage with you. I have made every effort to stay off your radar. All to no avail.
This is not why I joined this forum.
Others may quickly forget this exchange and continue feeding your ego, but I will never forget what you’ve done.
I hope you feel proud of yourself.
I will be reporting your attacks on me, and I hope others will as well, because this needs to stop for everyone's sake.
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